The evening is designed to be fun and relaxed, but your first impression will inevitably be how you look. But a favorite pair of black slacks and a nice blouse and nice heels works too. Unique, interesting jewelry or accessories can be a great conversation starter too! According to the scientists, most attractive and stimulating color for a woman to wear is RED, which actually increases blood flow. Guys who frequently wear blue are "stable, faithful and always there." The "blue guy" is a fabulous candidate for a long-term relationship --- someone who's dependable, monogamous and can match his own clothes. ) Go to the event with an open mind and be positive--keep your mind open. Recognize it, welcome it and flirt a little...(Then dig a little deeper to see what else there is). After all...isnt love and affection a process of chemistry as well? Learning to listen and be interested in the other person in front of you is vital if youre to have a strong connection. (EX: Religion / Politics) Do not tell lies or exaggerate stay honest Stay away from racy jokes or questions that could be sexual in nature Don't tell too much very personal information about your yourself; (EX: how terrible you were treated in your last relationship, or your personal finances.) Remember to keep it simple: Fun, positive and confident is attractive.
And you only have one chance to make a first impression. (And mimics attraction.) AND according to those studies ... It's pretty exciting to attend a speed-dating event. If you have read the book "The Secret" you know the main message in the book is "positive thinking" brings to you positive results. Compared to meeting people over the internet, one of the real advantages speed dating and single events offers is the ability to meet live and in person. As you begin each round of mini-dates, remember to stay focused. Save any effort to "catch up or regroup" with friends after the event is over. Let's face it, flattery is hard to resist - especially when it's sincere or novel.
A smile can open doors, it allows the other person to know you like them, and your smile makes you more approachable to anyone. Whatever compliment you choose just be sincere- that will always shine through.Here are some fun and creative questions you might ask to break the ice: Is this your first Speed Dating event? Plan to bring a cell phone and have the number of the person whom you're meeting handy.